I guarantee that this is not the first you will have read of manifesting or the Law of Attraction. For those of you that haven't, it is a 'like attracts like' concept that states every person has the ability to attract things into their life with their thoughts and intentions. So, what makes this blog different? I think there are some very big steps missing from most Law of Attraction articles, so I'm here to share them with you.
So The Law of Attraction is that thing where you think of something and you get it, right?
Well, yes AND no. If you begin to align your energy with having a red car, it doesn't necessarily mean that a red car will show up in your driveway unexpectedly with a big bow on it. I mean, it could. But......
My biggest complaint with the majority of Law of Attraction material is that it approaches your desires from your current state of mind. From my perspective, there is a reason that you don't have what you want right now and it's probably that you are not fully aligned with what it would be like to have this thing in your life.
So, if you don't start from where you are now..... then where do you start? Here is MY secret for manifesting:
What do I mean by that? In order to be a happier person, one must start by being happy. In order to be a lovable person, one must start by being love. In order to be a successful person, you must first SEE success within you.
Back to that red car example. If you start to align yourself with the energy of a red car, it is VERY likely that you will start to see red cars everywhere. But it is unlikely that you will actually own a red car. That is, until you BECOME the person WHO JUST IS the owner of the red car.
The energy you want in your future must be
EMBODIED in your present.
If you attempt to go to the energy, it's approaching it as if you are some how currently separate from the energy - as if there is a disconnect. If you continually see yourself as separate or disconnected from the energy.... you will never realize your desires.
I connect with my desires and embody them in the present using two methods:
1. I experience what it is that I think I want in life. I fully immerse myself in the energy of that thing so that I can FEEL what it's like to be the kind of person who lives in a loft in Downtown Los Angeles or drives a luxury vehicle or commits to her life partner. Once you are aware of the feeling of that energy, it's important to dwell in that energy repeatedly and frequently. The more you can feel yourself being one with whatever you want - the more quickly it will manifest in your life.
2. I spend time with my future self. I think this is the easiest way to manifest. I look at who I need to be in the world in order to receive the experiences I want in my life.
And just because I love you so much..... I've recorded a Future Self visualization that I personally use to gain clarity around who I need to be in the world for my dreams to reveal themselves to me. Click below to access the visualization, and be sure to follow up with a comment here to tell me how it went for you!
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